Revised August 2026 · fourth revision
Most disagreements are two people optimising for different unstated outcomes.
Adding is visible and rewarded. Removing is invisible, which is why it stays undone.
Handbooks rot. Five lines about why we chose this survive.
Told to me in a performance review in 2024 and it was accurate. I finish things now, I just start more than I can finish at the same time.
Every good stretch I have had involved someone else in the room. Every stall involved working alone.